Opinion

Why are relationships becoming bondage?

Now-a-days people can make relationships very easily. Social media helps in connecting people but people are breaking their relationship very easily. We have encountered many divorce, break ups which were not witnessed in the past.

Relationships can also make and break people.

Many times people witness the conflicts of thoughts and opinion and they feel frustrated. We aren’t able to have patience in any relationship. This is not about a single person.

Generally, we all are on the same scale. Most of the time, we don’t grow together, and then we feel relationships are becoming bondage.

Mostly, we learn values like comparison, patience, etc from our families or circumstances but no one tells us how to handle relationships, how to learn and grow together.

When two immature people are in a relationship (except parents and children relationship) they often end their relationship on very silly things. However, when one person is mature and another is immature then either relationship becomes toxic or bondage for them. Here we will talk about maturity and immaturity but what is maturity?

Maturity means to accept the person as they are and understand their opinion along with adding values in life.

Relationships can make you a king or leave you with no penny. It means if a relationship becomes bondage it will become a hurdle in our personal growth.

So, what can we do? We discussed the issues. Now, we need to talk about solutions, we can’t change anyone, but we can have conversations with our loved ones, we can simply tell them about our goal and grow together.

It’s obvious you can’t end all relationships. You can’t leave your mother or blood relationship. All you can do is taointintjem and if you can’t do anything then maintain distance with them and try to be kind towards them because kindness & love can change anything and anyone.

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