Our kinsmen were mostly kind and used to think that they need to devote more time to God and devote time for the service of humankind. There are many who engage in bad habits but they know the difference between what is good for them and what is not. But now, we are inspired by Western culture and are not able to differentiate between things which will be beneficial for us. Now, coming to the topic, you know what gossip is?
Obviously all of us know because many are indulged in such activities directly or indirectly.
Many times we aren’t aware but we gossip. You may like doing this but you know what doon you’ll see yourself as a totally different person who you never intended to become. It simply starts from telling some secret of others or simply an act of judging others. You express your opinion about others and within some months, you observe that you become a gossiper. When you don’t like gossip but still you do such acts then you start hating yourself and it is one of the worst things one can do with themselves. So, avoid doing such things.
Now, what you can do when you observe yourself to be indulged in gossip? The first thing that you can do is avoid such groups of people who are indulged in such acts and simply see the positive aspect of people.